In Her Own Words
About her
I have quite a dark sense if humour sometimes and love anything slightly strange or unusual. I love music of many genres but my go to is usually rock or goth. Avid gig and theatre goer. I'm not a bad cook and love cooking for people who also appreciate food. That said, I'm no Nigella in looks or culinary creations.
My outlook on life is a cliché but life's too short and full of too many missed opportunities. Take chances, have fun, enjoy life and appreciate the small things. If you try something new and you don't like it, you don't have to do it again but at least you tried! Just don't deliberately hurt anyone along the way.
Oh, and I don't reply to messages from people without photos, or ones that are clearly someone else's picture.Too many scammers out there unfortunately.
About her ideal match
My ideal match must love music, good food and have a sense of humour. They need to have a relatively positive outlook (but realistic) and must like dogs! I am looking for someone to share my life with, but they need be comfortable with me spending time with friends too. I believe a healthy relationship allows you to be an individual as well as a couple.
Deal breaker would be anyone with extreme political views, intolerance of other cultures/beliefs/preferences etc.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Carlisle, Cumbria, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district CA3 (Carlisle) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
44 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly; Wild; It has its moods |
Body art: |
More piercings; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Heavy Metal; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Horror |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Drama; Horror |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Very |