In His Own Words
About him
I'm sociable, chatty & cook real food - nothing fancy mind.
I'm very open & tactile, missing the companionship & intimacy of a proper relationship.
Feel I'd like to see more of the world now I have time - but it would be so much better to share that with someone special.
I'm happy with pets but do not want them to be a major part of a relationship, or a tie in any way. Sorry but I was tied by work then being a carer right through COVID.
I love live music & the freedom to do things on a whim.
I like exploring, walking, camping, historic places, markets & autojumbles, socialising, the pub quiz, diy, mechanics, old motorbikes, gardening, real coffee, wine, cheese, seafood, good company, - simple things!
Ever hopeful.
About his ideal match
An easy going and active lady who likes at least some of the same things that I like & can put up with me.
Plus a little mutual attraction!
A woman who isn't bothered about finding a man who is much taller than themselves - I lived with a lovely taller lady for many years, so it's not an issue for me.
And now that I'm retired, somebody without too many ties that might prevent just doing things on a whim, travel for instance.
I am privileged to have found such a woman once, could I be so lucky as to find another?
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Weston-Super-Mare (Clevedon), Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
58 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Folk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Motorsport; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Planet Rock Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |










